How The Mother Memoir Came To Life

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The gathering of Mother Memoir stories started after my mother’s death over a decade ago.  At that time, for reasons soon to be apparent, I sent a note to close friends and relatives asking them to send memories in story form about mother figures. Below is the letter I sent back then, which precipitated the release that was just the beginning of the remarkable chorus of voices that came pouring forth from TellTale Souls. “Dear_______,My mother’s death last fall prompted a plethora of remembrances. Through the tears of sorrow, bright rays of sunlight streaked as my sister and I talked of things recalled—great memories we enjoyed and hope to keep alive within our family.Invariably, when I spoke to friends or relatives at that time, their memories too were jogged. And they’d tell little stories. Sometimes about my mother, but more often than not, their stories were about their mothers.I found each story interesting. They ran the gamut from hilarious, passionate, bitter-sweet

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Publish Your Book: Get Personal with Literary Agents

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  Authors and Writers “Speed-Dating” by the Bay at our 9th Annual Signature EventBack by popular demand:  Keynote Luncheon (see below) MEET-THE-AGENTS & ACQUISITION EDITORSLynn Henriksen, Event Chair, lynn(at)telltalesouls.com Saturday, March 24th, 2012 • 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.Sinbad’s Restaurant, Pier 2, San Francisco$50 WNBA member, $65 non-member, or $75 at the door(Bonus:  Coffee and “How to Pitch Training” included from 8:00 to 9:00 am)Space is limited (we sold out last year) – REGISTER SOONRegister via PayPal at www.wnba-sfchapter.org or mail your check made out to WNBA-SF to P.O. Box 244, Half Moon Bay, CA  94019Keynote Luncheon – 12:30 – $35.00 - Menu selections on our website.Bestselling author Meg Waite Clayton says, “I didn't start out being a novelist, I started out as someone who wanted to be a novelist but had no idea how one went about that - much less any faith in my own talent.” Stay for lunch to rub elbows with the agents and

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Forgettable Women or Stars Brightly Burning?

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Ever feel like no one really sees you, especially, those of the opposite sex? Do you sometimes wonder, “Am I fading into oblivion?”  Don’t let it get you down, you’re among friends, and there are better things on the horizon than a “cat-call.”I communicate with women of all kinds—friends, relatives, and strangers: some in my workshops; some on the street; some in groups I belong to; and some on social media. I observe people and the interactions between them.After hearing women repeat sentiments about fading into oblivion as they age, I realized there is a theme reverberating among women in mid-life and beyond. Blurry lines frame the mid-life years it seems, since I’m hearing similar words from women in their forties on up to eighty-year-olds. Mostly, I sense that “forgettable women” feel a loss, perhaps bewilderment, a little pain, but not anger at being less visible. They accept, although they feel uncomfortably cut off, particularly from the opposite sex. They

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San Francisco Writers Conference 2012

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A CELEBRATION OF CRAFT, COMMERCE, AND COMMUNITY! This headline for The San Francisco Writers Conference 2012 will provide exactly that and more. Click the link above for the line-up of inspiring bestselling authors, legendary agents, writing intensive workshops, classes on craft galore, and to register.As The Story Woman and a TellTale Soul, I can’t think of any place I’d rather be. Hope to see you sometime during the 5 day extravaganza, February 15-20, 2012.

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ON WRITING—INSPIRATION, INTENTION, FRUITION

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Or is it intention, inspiration, fruition?  Many years ago, inspiration led me to write a book, a guidebook filled with exercises and stories to take “most anyone” on a journey along a writer’s path. For the past few years, my intention has been to craft it well, to make it different and special, and then to send this guidebook out to the masses. That is now coming to fruition—this spring TellTale Souls Writing The Mother Memoir: How to Tap Memory & Write Your Story will be published – March or April, well before Mother’s Day, anyway.Back to the order of the nouns. Fruition needs to stay put on the list, since it marks the end point, the fulfillment of the desire to transport your thoughts to paper through a heartfelt story or to Wow! the world with a brilliant 400 page page-turner.  However, whether to put intention or inspiration first on the list isn’t so cut and dried.  But, does it matter?  Let’s take a look at both intention and inspiration.Is it your

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‘Tis the Season…so please tell me what you believe in

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Merry Mother Memoir and a Happy New Writing Year    I BELIEVE. TELL IF YOU DO, TOO, AND WHY.      With love from The Story Woman to you thoughtful, amazing TellTale Souls

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GHOST DANCE OF TELLTALE SOULS

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Memories dance like ghosts in our heads until we realize we have the power to set them free.GHOST DANCEI crept inside and found youoh ghosts of persistent passion,sacred dancers, anticipating me;chant-like voices calling, cries summoning—seeking communion… Concentric rings of shadows embrace,spirits soar united, receiving, awakening,inscribing one more soul, ghost dance resumes;mothers, sisters, daughters, the throng consumes—we nod in recognition… I chose the ethereal path seeking you, andfound ageless, fervid wisdom, thick liquid;otherworldly things now manifest in core.children of grace, voiceless ones, my time to guideyour dance… All ghosts of mothers, burgeoning with radiance;spirit flames now molten sterling strokes on canvas;hands molding clay, forever blending, bending, gushing—releasing memories encoded in repose, etched in seed—for youprogeny.  This poem was meant to inspire those daughters and sons hesitant to take first steps intowriting the Mother Memoir

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Blindness Is In The Eye Of The Beholder

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“Beauty” is in the eye of the beholder—this saying is hard to dispute, most everyone agrees, and I’ll go it a step further and say “blindness” is in the eye of the beholder. All too often we view others and our surroundings with a blind eye. We have preconceived ideas about people and things making it difficult to lay our assumptions aside to look at matters in a different light. Don’t be blind to possibilities.It is most probable that the inner makeup of your characters has greater depth and complexity than you realize or give them credit for. The particulars you take in at first glance or the filter through which you view people you know intimately is riddled with blind spots. To write well, look at everyone you include in your stories as individuals unto themselves. Get into the heart of whom they are, without painting them into a box you thought fitting. Take off the blinders and look at the potential to incorporate a wider, more robust view of your characters while

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Nectar Taunts the Lazy Tongue

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(To unscramble this poem on memory & memoir, click “read more.”) Buds evoking what’s to come,Nudging traces in pool of haze, marking time,Just grazing.Nectar naively taunts the lazy tongue,Seeking shadows bent in silhouette. Faded light to bright the now begun.Mind grasping, gasping for perception In collection.Spike the feast, rattle the gourd,Reckon whorled resurrection. Unknown known as inky marks traverse the run,Find teasing taste of sweet vermouthOr bitter truth.Sometimes I remember to findReason coursing season.The Story Woman asks you to write Mother Memoir by using the seasons of recall to let your memories roll into your unique bio-vignette.

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Flash Fizzle: Fiction or Not?

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It’s the 4th of July brought to us by the one, the only, Declaration of Independence.  I love the idea that our Founding Fathers were willing to die for our country's independence. We’ve become of nation with too many so-called leaders, hungry for power, who live for the vote regardless of what is right for the people of the United States of America—a far cry from the group of people in 1776 who had true character and conviction and the courage to do the right thing by founding a country based on principles that made us strong and indebted to no one.Would you sign your John Hancock or simply pin your hopes on a sparkler?  Beware the hot wire left in the grass; the burn makes for blisters that weep well after the flash fizzles.Photo by Orin Zebest

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