Porch-talk, Storytelling, & Memoir Writing A couple of days ago, I went to a memorial service at St. Stephen’s Episcopal in Belvedere for a beautiful, remarkable soul, Elizabeth “Betty” McKegney. She was 99 years old. She would have been 100 on September 9th. I heard it uttered that it was too bad she hadn’t reach the milestone of 100 years of age. Well, to me, it just seemed right for her to take the poetic route: born 9-09-09, she took her leave at 99. Nice. The church was packed because Betty was significant in so many people’s lives as well as the one of the last of the “old guard.” I’m sure many of you know what I mean. This woman represented an era now past, the nostalgia of which is instilled in my heart. She lived in a house they say was graced by 150 cats, at one time or another, that was the first left turn just past our house and about 150 yards down one of the last gravel roads in town. This gravel road was fitting, too, as the last vestige of
4 Reasons to Give the Gift of Story

4 Reasons to Give the Gift of Story Yes, she's your mother, maybe your grandmother, or another woman to whom you felt like a daughter or a son. Have you ever actually stopped to think about whom she really is as an individual, as a woman unto herself? What aspect of her being, what quality, action, or anecdote could you draw upon to bring the essence of her character to light in a short memoir, a bio-vignette, which would give someone reading your story a pretty good idea of what she is like as seen through your eyes? At times she is mysterious, other times transparent. But of this you can be sure, she's not the same woman to anyone other than you. For our purposes here, we're not going to get philosophical, and we'll leave the psychoanalysis to the docs. Her character is multifaceted, her inner make up complex, but for you there are certain aspects of her spirit that stand out, those qualities through which her character comes to life. What do you most remember about her and


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